To All The People....
I had left writing much about folk psychology....
What is a personal calling? It is God’s blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. Why? There are four obstacles. First, we are told from childhood onwards that everything we want to do is impossible. We grow up with this idea, and as the years accumulate, so too do the layers of prejudice, fear and guilt. There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But it’s still there. If we have the courage to disinter our dread, we are then faced by the second obstacle:love. We know what we want to do, but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream. We do not realize that love is just a further impetus, not something that will prevent us going forward, and that those who genuinely wish us well want us to be happy and are prepared to accompany us on that journey. Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus, we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path. We who fight for our dream suffer far more when it doesn’t word out, because we cannot fall back on the old excuse, “Oh, well, I didn’t really want it anyway. “We do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of the personal calling is no easier than any other path, except that our whole heart is in this journey. Then we warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the Universe is conspiring in our favor, even though we may not understand how. I ask myself: are defeats necessary? Well, necessary or not, they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream, we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times. So, why is it so important to live our personal calling if we are only going to suffer more than other people? Because once we have overcome the defeats-and we always do-we are filled with a greater sense of euphoria and confidence. In the silence of our hearts, we know that we are proving ourselves worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the good fight. We start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing, eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives. Having disinterred our dream, having used the power of love to nurture it and spent many living with the scars, we suddenly notice that what we always wanted is there, waiting for us, perhaps the very next day. Then comes the fourth obstacle: the fear of realizing the dream for which we have been fighting all our lives. Oscar Wilde said, “Each man kills the thing he loves.” And it’s true. The mere possibility of getting what we want fills the soul of the ordinary person with guilt. We look around at all those who have failed to get what they want and feel that we do not deserve to get what we want either. We forget about all the obstacles we overcame, all the suffering we endured, all the things we had to give up in order to get this far. I have known a lot of people who, when their personal calling was within their grasp, went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal when it was only a step away. This is the most dangerous of the obstacles because it has a kind of saintly aura about it: renouncing joy and conquest. But if you believe yourself worthy of the thing you fought so hard to get, then you become an instrument of God, you help the Soul of the World, and you understand why you are here.......
All my posts are based on some conceptions... well, people love o categorise others... Its a human tendency... Some do it as simple as say... tall or short? right or wrong? good or bad? up Or down? When the heart is listened to, it sends a signal to the brain (an afferent nerve current that goes up) and it goes to the brain. It tells the brain what to do. Now, we know what a tussle that can be when we are going back and forth, back and forth. When we become aware of the fact that we are doing it, that is the key - ah-ha! Here I am. My heart is saying I want to do this in this situation and my mind is saying such and such; then we can stop ourselves and examine what we are doing and why we are doing it. That is why I say it is a practice because if people really want to ingest this and take it in and begin to do it, it is going to be something that happens every moment of every day. You are going to catch yourself looking at something and doing something by rote rather than allowing the brain to receive new information and trying something new on for size. Take babysteps. Don't go out and do something like quit your job because that is what your heart is telling you for the very first thing you are going to do. So how many of you agree to this...?? Is It True that our hearts and brains are perfectly coordinated? Do we do everything After consulting both....??? Think A Minute.... Jus Close Your Eyes... The Last Time You Attended An Interview (or say college councilling)... Did You Ever Feel That The Job Was Going To Be Yours... Did You Have An Emotional Thought? And Secondly... The last Time You Told a guy/girl that you like them.... did you ever ever think about what you were hinting... And if that was practically possible?? BLOW! neverrrr... No... we dont !!! We Never Integrate Both... THey Both Act Separately.... When We Talk About Professional Things... We Think That Since It Involves Education.... It Just Means Brains... NO Heart... Completely Wrong... Have You Ever felt that an engineer stared at his medical counterparts books and felt" reading about human anatomy is better than that of machines anatomy?" "If I could win an elocution competition why should i not be a lawyer,... Y am I Engineer????" Millions of Questions Running In Millions Of Minds!!!!!!!! AND ONLY ONE SOLUTION: Feel.... You Didnot have the feeling... Feeling that you were an engineer... you never imagined yourself to be one.... Cuz so much worried about your ability... You were so much worried about whether or not you would get it... Rather than whether you raelly want it.... like this story: Once there was this kid sitting on the lawn of his home... He saw many kids on the road who were playing and really wanted to be with them and enjoy... But couldnt... he was a rich kid... And they were labourers descendants... Hierachy mattered for both! they couldn't afford to lose that... And once when the rich kid say the labourers dip raw ice in colored syrupy water and call it an Ice-Cream... He was so tempted and went and took one.. He was The Type Of Kid Who Never Ate chocolate Ice-Creams... Without sauce and chips... :P And thus he tasted and spat and on the floor.... Moral: Most of the times people do things just cos others do... Not because they really want... :) SO...... getting back to our story :P that way people never feel what they want and what they don't... :) Brains are Good in this way... I really appreciate... But Remember Dont Do SO Much For something you don't want... :D Regarding the other half of the story... This ones got to be the Best story to explain what I want to... She was my friend... Not very close... Yet Not very far.. I still remember those moments when I Attended her marriage ceremony! He was a guy... Of course a guy... Who was very hi fi... Like techie... An electrical engineer wired ina ll wrong sense,... too matrialistic to appreciate things around him..... She was a girl... For whom Imagination meant world.... Appreciating others talents and beauty meant lifer :) And when they met.... INEVITABLE HAPPENED! She came to me running... Saying that he was the best guy... He loved her a lot... He had told her so! She meant how could that not be true!!! I told her to stick to the ground and not fly high... She cried and said... That I was Jealous of her... Her Best Friend suddenly was no more! Seems No guy Would ever Love me.,.. And That Way I Had A Reason to Be Jealous! Little was I hurt By Her words... All The More I felt Sorry... Sorry for her... And sitting in the marriage aisle... still my mind was vividly picturising those moments... Initially, things did go on well.... They hanged out a lot... And she Tried a lot to impress him with her poetry and looks... he tried a lot to say her about what he was going to invent and what he was planning to do in it... Little that the guy know that the girl wanted him to appreciate her looks... not talk About science! Little that the girl knew that the guy wanted the girl to assist him in his work... And Not Behave in silly way! And know what is the most funniest and ironic thing... THEY TRULY LOVED EACH OTHER!!!!!!! And today she had completely gone over him... Marrying someone else.... :) Well, happy for her i thought :) Get up people.... Story over... So the point is though both were intrested in each other... they never reallly thought if it was worth practically.... Though A guy can be practically sound...love can make head spin! :) Solution lies in applying your brain.... Obviously... So Do You Live By Your Heart Or Brain.....? Soon to be decided in the posts to come :) Regards... Sti :)
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