Lime-Light Of Love.....

It is all about people,emotions,thoughts and relationships.... Shortly, Folk Psychology!


To All The People....

Who Have Got Their Guy/Girl...
And Doesnot Know How To Keep Up Their Magic :)

Soo....
Finally Dispelling all Uncertainties... Worries... And Fulfilling Your cherished dreams... You get Your soulmate...

Dedicated to my Geek Friend... Prem Bharath.. This One Is Definetly For You Dude :)

Congratulations!!! :) :)
(P:S U Donno How Lucky U Are !!! ;) )

So Next The Biggest Thing For Every guy is... How Do I Prove that When I Promised her.. I Meant it.... When I said That She Would Be Happy I Meant That I Had Jubilance In Store For her... In My Heart In My Life.... :)

1.In The Initial stages Of your Commitment, It Wouldn't be a big problem... You guys are new to each other... and are ready to experiment your relation... So You talk and chat about each others intrest, life, family.. And What Not?!
( Remember guys... If You Are Not Meant To Be Together, Girls Find It Out At This Stage.... :) Thus Most Break-ups Happen At This Stage )

2. The Next thing... Getting actually close.. complementing each other... Calling each other by cute names... the increased concern of the girl... a million times saying I Love You... lol :D

3.Hanging out with your girl... (remember if she is ur gf... introduce her as gf only... especially to other girls... otherwise await hell that day) And Spending time On Long drives... Travelling alone.... loving nature together.....

4.By now, U would've had an idea of what she likes and what she doesnt... A Small fights One or two, Might Have even happened....
Remember to note how your girl reacts after u apologise and how she is without you.. during a fight and even before and after that..... :) (Ill say later how 2 interpret)

5.And Then U Guys How much ever Perfect you may be... End Up Making A Big Mistake...
Generally, One Of These:
# U Werent really angry... but under some emotional swing did say something very bad... And end up hurting her....

#You ended up being caught by their parents in public... You Denied knowing her...

#Many girls are not comfy with hugs and holdings.. When She ws frank, You Did not like...

#She suddenly feels that this is not meant to be.. You guys are trying hard to make it happen, its not happening naturally....

# She Feels Insecure, Jealous, Or really possesive....

# She Gets a Complex... Inferiority or superiority... whatever!!!!

#You were so Involved in love that You forgot to take care of profession....

#She feels she can never satisfy you... Or keep You Happy!

#You Spoke Bad About her...She Came To Know About it... And Was Shattered...
( P:S Mostly when you guys end up in gangs and start discussiong abt ur respective girls... U Can Neither Support Your girl.. You will Be Called as a love-dog by rest of guys... nor leave her... you will be doing wrong to her that way... generally avoid discussions to be safe... )

#Or Simply She Is Bored! Lolzz

Soo....

The Magic In Your relation is gone obviously!!!!

Remember (I Never believed so myself... Until recently ) In true Love Sparks Fly.. Lol..

So How Do You Keep Your love story uptight....??

In A Way .. Words would help a lot... when it comes to girl... they never forget what you spoke and how you made them feel...
#Rekindle the spirit... tell her how you felt when you first touched her.. when you first met her... "when the first time i saw/did......"this Phrase always helps...
#tell her how good she is... and why she is special....
# take her out without letting her know abt the plan...
# When she is sobbing continuously and telling u to leave her for good... Jus Give her a Tight hug...
# when she is upset on account of your act, say mea things about yourself... she will agree with the first, hear the second and obviously stop the third..lol
#Once In A While When She Least Expects Give her gifts And Visits....
#talk about everything btw... many people don't do this.. Just Flirting And Moving around together... is Not Love... And You Are not A Kid...

Remember your girl friend isn't a shiny new toy, so that you can show around to people proudly... Yeah, You CAn do That.... definetly not a bad idea.. But don't make her feel like a thing... Tell Her What Your World is... Describe your day.. The people you meet.. The Things You Do... The Things You Liked... The Things You did not like...
Like describe a sunset or chirping of birds.. Aww Percy I Miss You... I Really Do :(
Sigh... This Is More Than Enough Even If You Don't Flirt!!!!!!!! She Must Feel That She Is A Part Of Your World... Never forget to do this... In the Long Run, She Would Feel Awesome.. And Naturally She would get reassurance And Faith in you... And She Would get the feeling that no one knows more about her than u :) :)

And Remember only you two know what Is Special amongst you.. Keep The flame alive.. how much ever I Say Only You Can Keep Doing things.. And You Know What Can Be Done Top Keep Your Girl Happy..!!!

Love, Is Just A Part Of Your Life...
She, Is Just A Part Of Your world...
Never ever forget that.... Or else.. You will end up making yourself feel miserable and spread your misery to the girl... :)

Regards,
Messi :)
M Back To Life... :)

I had left writing much about folk psychology....

In Between I Lost faith In Reality Of relations....
But Then Again, I'm Back!!!!!

Jus Wanted This Post Top Be read so making it damn short...
I Have Been Hearing Girls complain alot... Isn't It The Guys Job To Do This???

To All Of Em , With Loads Of Love....

Nothing is pre-written, Whatever is good or wrong depends on only what the people involved think....

U Might Have Your Own Views Of What IS Right And Wrong... But Sometimes You May Have To Cross Your Limits To Hold Your Love....

Remember... How Much Ever Perfect Your Partner Is Gona Be.. There Is Always An Imperfection.... And At Some Point Of Time... They Are Definetly Gonna Hurt You... The Sooner You Learn The Better.... :)

And Finally.....

In A Less Crowded Street You Can Break Your Rules Adjust With The Opposite vehicle and drive on the wrong side of the road... Yet reach safe....
In Life... You Can do Things That You Expect Others To Do.... It's All About Giving More Than Getting..... Adjustment Is Only Between You Two.... Ultimately If You Both Make Sense And Justify Yourselves.... You Need Not Wait For Anyone......

And Finally... Say What Is Happening Only If You Are Ok With All Sorts Of Comments You Get From Others..... Otherwise...
Live....
Dream....
And,
Relish
YOUR OWN WORLD........!!!!!

With Loads Of Love,
Sti :)


What is a personal calling? It is God’s blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream. Why?

There are four obstacles. First, we are told from childhood onwards that everything we want to do is impossible. We grow up with this idea, and as the years accumulate, so too do the layers of prejudice, fear and guilt. There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But it’s still there.

If we have the courage to disinter our dread, we are then faced by the second obstacle:love. We know what we want to do, but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream. We do not realize that love is just a further impetus, not something that will prevent us going forward, and that those who genuinely wish us well want us to be happy and are prepared to accompany us on that journey.

Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus, we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path. We who fight for our dream suffer far more when it doesn’t word out, because we cannot fall back on the old excuse, “Oh, well, I didn’t really want it anyway. “We do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of the personal calling is no easier than any other path, except that our whole heart is in this journey. Then we warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the Universe is conspiring in our favor, even though we may not understand how.

I ask myself: are defeats necessary? Well, necessary or not, they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream, we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.

So, why is it so important to live our personal calling if we are only going to suffer more than other people? Because once we have overcome the defeats-and we always do-we are filled with a greater sense of euphoria and confidence. In the silence of our hearts, we know that we are proving ourselves worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the good fight. We start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing, eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives.

Having disinterred our dream, having used the power of love to nurture it and spent many living with the scars, we suddenly notice that what we always wanted is there, waiting for us, perhaps the very next day. Then comes the fourth obstacle: the fear of realizing the dream for which we have been fighting all our lives.

Oscar Wilde said, “Each man kills the thing he loves.” And it’s true. The mere possibility of getting what we want fills the soul of the ordinary person with guilt. We look around at all those who have failed to get what they want and feel that we do not deserve to get what we want either. We forget about all the obstacles we overcame, all the suffering we endured, all the things we had to give up in order to get this far. I have known a lot of people who, when their personal calling was within their grasp, went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal when it was only a step away.

This is the most dangerous of the obstacles because it has a kind of saintly aura about it: renouncing joy and conquest. But if you believe yourself worthy of the thing you fought so hard to get, then you become an instrument of God, you help the Soul of the World, and you understand why you are here.......

Dedicated to the friend of mine who listens to Every Word of Mine... This One is For you Buddy!!!!!!
Some Stories Dont Have A Clear Beginning, Middle Or The End....
Mine Definely falls Under This Category..lol
Perspective of things is different..... And So Is Everyones Perception about Life.....
Some See It As The Seek Of Solutions...
For Some, It Is A Perfect Relation....
For Some, It Is Professional Success...
For Some, It Is Learning Things....
For Some, It Is Financial Stability....
For A Few Extravagantly Selfish People... They Need Every part of the Above...
Unfortunately,
I Am One Of Them... :D
"Life Is Not A Matter Of Milestones.... But Moments..... :)
People run behind money, fame, love, affection, things, time.... And What Not????"

And What Does An Average Man Expect From A Life......

For A Man...
A Happy Dawn...
With His Dream-Girl In His Life...
A Cup Of Coffee...
A Morning Talk With Her girl And Mom About His Day's Plan...
And The Sort Of Result He Expects That Day...
Anticipating, Good Wishes From Them....
"My Mom Would Take Care Of Me... And Would Bless Me... My Girl Would Be With Me... In Rain And Sun... Through The Thick And Thin Of Life...."
Is What he Thinks And Leaves The Home...
A Work Place...
In The Profession That He Loves...
Complete Job-Satisfaction...
peace Of Mind....
Appraisal From Seniors....
Expecting Good Profit Ahead...
An Afternoon Lunch...
With Colleagues...
A Chat About The Prospects Ahead...
A Short Call Back Home...
Getting Back To Work...
And Leaving Home...
A Special Friends Sudden Evening Visit...
Memories Of The Past..
A Laughter Filled Chat...
A Candle-lit Dinner....
A End Of The Chat With The Beloved About The Day...
A Peaceful Night Sleep...
With Lots Of Dreams For The Days Ahead....
(The Things In Black Would Seriously Help People Out Of Depression... These Are Optimistic Lines...:))

And What Do The Get Is Something I Don't Have to Say....:)

Some Achieve So Much That The On-Lookers Are Awestuck... Some Have Got True Soulmates... So Much That People Almost Think The Attraction Between Them Is Magnetic... Some Have So Much Money That Probably They May Never Earn To Eat....
What Makes The Best Thing.....

Smile... :) Its The Second Best Thing You Can Do With Your Mouth.. First Is Eating..lol
Laugh Loudly... Cry Out Even Louder... Shout At People... Feel Jealous.... Feel Insecure... Feel Possessive... Justify Yourself... Contradict Yourself.... Live A Hero Life(Consider Yourself One..lol) ... Treat Yourself... Buy Yourself Goodies... Tell That You Love em ;) Appreciate Everyones Qualities...

Open Your Windows ... Get That First Drop Of Rain On Your Cheek...
Cup Your Face... There Is Nothing Ever More Beautiful Than That....
Hug Your Mum... There Can Never Be Another Great Woman In Your Life.... :)
Praise Your Idol.. There Is Reason You Like Them...
Kiss Your Loved One... Life Has Relations Tooo :) :) :)

And Finally Speak... Speak Your Heart Out....Speak Every Word You Want... Blurt Out... Blabber... shout In Agony... In Joy... In Pain, In Ecstasy.... In Love...Speak your dreams... your visions... your aspirations....Your Every Heartbeat.. To The One Who Owns Your Heart... Maybe Your Friend.. A Crush.. Or Even A Colleague.. Or Just An Acquaintance....

Trust Me... Everything In Your Life Would Be At The Bottom... Until The Right Person Comes And Turns Your Hour-Glass Upside Down... :)

Regards...
sti :)

All my posts are based on some conceptions... well, people love o categorise others... Its a human tendency... Some do it as simple as say... tall or short? right or wrong? good or bad? up Or down?

I Categorise as::
HEART OR BRAIN!

yea folks... Its about psychology again! :D This must mostly not be a new topic for you... its an age old confusion.. Heart Or Brain??
So what does my topic actually mean?
Some people live in their worlds, some people live in this world :P
Some people do what they "feel", some people do what they "think"
For Some
Problems means "a Personal stress", Others Problems means "professional Inability"
And thus:
Some live by their heart And some by their Brain... :)
Of course to do some research work on this before i could actually quip what I felt....
I read this passage...

When the heart is listened to, it sends a signal to the brain (an afferent nerve current that goes up) and it goes to the brain. It tells the brain what to do. Now, we know what a tussle that can be when we are going back and forth, back and forth. When we become aware of the fact that we are doing it, that is the key - ah-ha! Here I am. My heart is saying I want to do this in this situation and my mind is saying such and such; then we can stop ourselves and examine what we are doing and why we are doing it. That is why I say it is a practice because if people really want to ingest this and take it in and begin to do it, it is going to be something that happens every moment of every day. You are going to catch yourself looking at something and doing something by rote rather than allowing the brain to receive new information and trying something new on for size. Take babysteps. Don't go out and do something like quit your job because that is what your heart is telling you for the very first thing you are going to do.


So how many of you agree to this...??

Is It True that our hearts and brains are perfectly coordinated?

Do we do everything After consulting both....???

Think A Minute....

Jus Close Your Eyes...

The Last Time You Attended An Interview (or say college councilling)... Did You Ever Feel That The Job Was Going To Be Yours... Did You Have An Emotional Thought?

And Secondly...

The last Time You Told a guy/girl that you like them.... did you ever ever think about what you were hinting... And if that was practically possible??

BLOW!

neverrrr... No... we dont !!!

We Never Integrate Both... THey Both Act Separately.... When We Talk About Professional Things... We Think That Since It Involves Education.... It Just Means Brains... NO Heart...

Completely Wrong...

Have You Ever felt that an engineer stared at his medical counterparts books and felt" reading about human anatomy is better than that of machines anatomy?" "If I could win an elocution competition why should i not be a lawyer,... Y am I Engineer????"

Millions of Questions Running In Millions Of Minds!!!!!!!!

AND ONLY ONE SOLUTION:

Feel.... You Didnot have the feeling... Feeling that you were an engineer... you never imagined yourself to be one.... Cuz so much worried about your ability... You were so much worried about whether or not you would get it... Rather than whether you raelly want it....

like this story:

Once there was this kid sitting on the lawn of his home... He saw many kids on the road who were playing and really wanted to be with them and enjoy... But couldnt... he was a rich kid... And they were labourers descendants... Hierachy mattered for both! they couldn't afford to lose that... And once when the rich kid say the labourers dip raw ice in colored syrupy water and call it an Ice-Cream... He was so tempted and went and took one..

He was The Type Of Kid Who Never Ate chocolate Ice-Creams... Without sauce and chips... :P And thus he tasted and spat and on the floor....

Moral: Most of the times people do things just cos others do... Not because they really want... :)

SO......

getting back to our story :P

that way people never feel what they want and what they don't... :) Brains are Good in this way... I really appreciate... But Remember Dont Do SO Much For something you don't want... :D

Regarding the other half of the story...

This ones got to be the Best story to explain what I want to...

She was my friend... Not very close... Yet Not very far.. I still remember those moments when I Attended her marriage ceremony!

He was a guy... Of course a guy... Who was very hi fi... Like techie... An electrical engineer wired ina ll wrong sense,... too matrialistic to appreciate things around him.....

She was a girl... For whom Imagination meant world.... Appreciating others talents and beauty meant lifer :)

And when they met....

INEVITABLE HAPPENED!

She came to me running... Saying that he was the best guy... He loved her a lot... He had told her so! She meant how could that not be true!!! I told her to stick to the ground and not fly high... She cried and said... That I was Jealous of her... Her Best Friend suddenly was no more! Seems No guy Would ever Love me.,.. And That Way I Had A Reason to Be Jealous! Little was I hurt By Her words... All The More I felt Sorry... Sorry for her...

And sitting in the marriage aisle... still my mind was vividly picturising those moments...

Initially, things did go on well.... They hanged out a lot... And she Tried a lot to impress him with her poetry and looks... he tried a lot to say her about what he was going to invent and what he was planning to do in it...

Little that the guy know that the girl wanted him to appreciate her looks... not talk About science!

Little that the girl knew that the guy wanted the girl to assist him in his work... And Not Behave in silly way!

And know what is the most funniest and ironic thing...

THEY TRULY LOVED EACH OTHER!!!!!!!

And today she had completely gone over him... Marrying someone else.... :)

Well, happy for her i thought :)

Get up people.... Story over...

So the point is though both were intrested in each other... they never reallly thought if it was worth practically.... Though A guy can be practically sound...love can make head spin! :)

Solution lies in applying your brain.... Obviously...

So Do You Live By Your Heart Or Brain.....?

Soon to be decided in the posts to come :)

Regards...

Sti :)

And This Post...

Is Only For Those Who Are Purely Single....

So Relations A Beautiful Word... Real Beauty... And In This Post Its All About... Love, Commitment And Life :)

Before Proceeding further A few points To Be Understood : : :
1. I'm Single :D Implying That The Post Is Not Out Of "Experience" :D
2. M Interested In psychology... Mebbe thats y Im writing this :)

So Lets Begin.... :)

Love Is A Beautiful Word... Meaning Affection... All Of Us Feel Drawn Towards People Due To Their Behavior Attitude... Or Looks... Mostly... There is No Reason.... :D

Soo.... How Do You... Know That They Are The One?

1. How Do I Impress The Girl....
There Is No Question Of Impressing A Girl... If She Truly Loves You... She Would BE Impressed With Everything That You Do... Even With the Way U Wish Her A Good Morning... By The Way You Speak... Your Thoughts.... Everything!
So The Best Way To Impress is Be Yourself... Coz thats the best thing you can do.. No one else can play your role... like you do right... And For their sake dont change yourself people... Thts the worst thing possible... You cant act like what you dont have... As the proverbs goes....
"Don't change yourself for something which is not meant to happen"
And If the girl is not your miss perfect and you keep changing yourself For the fact that they must like you... Ultimately You Would get confused About what you really are..... :P :D So Be Static... If She Really loves You She Must Love You The Way You are....

2.How Will Love Come In My Life:
Well... I'm In Psychology Not astrology To Predict this... :D It happens At The Right Time...
the Thumb Rule is :
"Dont Push It Too Hard, If It Is Meant To Happen It Will Happen..."
The Thing Is When You Feel You Are About To Get The Girl, Jus Ask Yourself the Following Questions : :

1. Is She The One ? ( ASK YOUR BRAIN NOT YOUR HEART... HEARTS LIE, BRAINS DONT:))
2. Will This Be Possible Practically? ( If No. Leave It Asap.... Coz If U Cant Leave It now, You can't Leave it Years After...... And Remember Things Don't Change With Time.... If It Has No Future, Wind It Up)
3. Am I Ok With Her Way Of Living? ( Her Attitudes, Her Profession..... Its More Imp About Her Profession :) Hope You Get It :D)
4. So What Difference Is It Going To Make In My Life Right Now, If At All She Agrees? ( Remember the more difference it Makes The More Headache You Are Going To Have... Things Must Be Normal... You guys May Think That I'm Unromantic... But This Is What I Call Being Practical... )
5. What Do We Guys Want From Life... ? ( Fun Wild N Exciting life Or Jus A Secure One)
6. How Are My Parents Going To Take It? (must be seriously considered)
3.Fine... She Agreed What Does She Expect now???
Now comes the bigger part... She agrees... :) How to make her happy... Depends on what category Your girl Really Is : :
1. Fun Loving frank Outdoor Types :
These type of girls, dont actually like their guys flirt continuously... A sudden Unexpected Comment... Amidst Their gang Would Make them Feel Good... A Few Of Them Even Adore PDAs... A Few Are Dead against It....
2. The Cute Nerds:
Handling them can be quite difficult... Coz their mood swings a lot... :P The best Way To Handle Them Is Appreciate their professional skills....
3.Make-Up-Meniacs:
:D ok ok... U mus be knowing How To Handle Them... Jus Appreciate Looks.... :)
4.The Real Good Girls:
I don't Mean The Rest Are Not Good... I Mean That These Are the Sorts Who Handle Both Professional And Personal Lifes Equally... Jus listening To them Would Be More Than Enough.... :)
5. The Shy Dreamers:
For Them World Lies in Fantasy... So Prove Yourself To Be Her Prince Charming :D

4.So What About Meeting?

How Often Must We Meet... This Is A Bizarre Question...
1.if You Both Share A Workplace... Then There Is No Real Problem...
2.If You Both Live in The Same City... Then Make It Up say Once in A Fortnite,,,
3. If U Both Live In Different Cities... Hmm... Sigh!
Then Only You Have To Work It Up... :)

5.What Should I Not Do?
This is the Most Important part... What Should You Not do...
1. Never Mock The Girl When She Is Really Upset... Never Ever Do That...
2. Trust Your Girl... Especially If You Share A Workplace... She Cannot Do Everything With You...
3. When A Girl Says About Her Difficulties... Don Be An idiot And Offer Her Solutions... She Knows The Solutions... She Just Wants You To Give A Comfortable Shoulder...
4.Respect her Opinions... Even If They Dont Agree With Yours... Be Polite in Saying...
5. Don't Ever Be Rude To Her... Just Bcoz... Your Day Is Not Good :'(
6. And The Magic Word Reassurance ... reassure her that No Other Girl Can Ever take her place in Your Life... And She IS Unique... :) :'(
7.Girls CAn Sometimes Be Stupid... :D Jus Stay cool... :P

How Much Ever You Dream No Relation Can Ever Be Perfect....
Life Is Just How Much You Soar Through Such Imperfections... :)
Regards...
Sti.....


VALENTINES DAY......

I Guess Love Is In The Air..... :) :) Yup I Can Sense It...

As I Walk Across The Streets... I Can Sense... How Cute It Could Feel When Cupid Strikes! :) :P

I can see people walking across holding hands, whispering love, cuddling around, smiling beautifully... In a shorter sense being happy... Happiness... That sort Of happiness Which you get when You realize that someone loves you the way you are... Loves You the way you are... Adores you the way you are... Really cares for you.... And wants to spend their rest of the days with you.....

So what I'm supposed to write in this article... Under the given title...

I have got no idea... Many of my friends got their better halves this year.... this article is just for them :) :)

This Way.... Long, Long Ago There Was A handsome Charming prince.... AArgh....!! Lets cut this crap stories :P :P Lets See What People Are Doing Around Us...(You see no longer do handsome princes Exist...pity! :P)
What are people doing...Hmmm...
Some are with broken hearts.... Broken and tormentalised by people who once considered them as the best part of their life... Tears... sigh... It hurts soo much you know... i have seen so many of them... It Is sometimes the worst thing that can ever happen to anyone... Broken hearts dont listen or understand they just Moan softly... Girls cry and pour the whole thing out... But Guys... They suffer more than anything... Afraid Of being called losers... Afraid of being called a coward... Afraid that they might become a Laughing joke... putting the same age-old Mr.I-Can-Handle- Anything... Mr. Hey-I-Never-Really-Cared... :D Torn Apart On the Inside... They Don't still give up... They still Flirt :D :P Hats Off!!! :)

Some Are Like Commited Long ago... And Yet another valentines day... Girls thinking inside.... I love you You love me... And I'm happy that everything is fine... All I wanted was you... And I suppose I was the Luckiest girl... To have you... Or did Someone tell me that way.... Yeah Jane did... She told me that kathy was also intrested in you... Oh! then why did you choose me... Oh! She was So hot... Every guy wanted her,,,, Oh! will You Leave me If You get her...
Sigh....lol so much they go ahead with their thoughts that they unknowingly ask
"Listen.... Do You remember that Kathy???"
Our Guys Never Forget A Girl... So he Asks:
"Yeah... I DO What About her?!"
"hmm... Well Nothing... Jane Casually said that it seems she has a crush on you... "
"oh is it... WHoa! I didnt know that"
"what do you mean You dint know that.... Is it necessary for you to know? Why dont you ask her out today... Em sure she still likes you...blah...blah........"
WHAT ARE YOU STILL SCROLLING DOWN???? :P :P
Sigh...... You Dont Understand... Do You
That Statement Obviously Means:::::::::
*END OF CONVERSATION* :P

Who else do I see... Well... A guy... He Is going Too Close to girl...OMG!! Just When I decide that I Needn't See Any More Of It... :P That Guy Cutely Bends on his knees... And Pulled Out A Ring... The ring was that brilliant And It shone in the moonlight... Trust me it was beautiful.... Really Beautiful.... And the girl... Why is She Crying now... Oh k... She is obviously very happy... Oh k *clap * *clap* She accepts it... WAY TO GO!!!!!! Obviously touchy touchy... ;) And Happily in his arms feeling protected, loved and cared... she walks ahead... Hoping to have an awesome future... that THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER SORTS :P :D

Feeling Bit Mushy-mashy :P I keep walking ahead.... I see A couple...Dancing beneath the tree in moonlight.... He sweetly gives her a peck on the cheek... and they cutely waltz on the street.... I guess they were married... The way she was showing off her wedding ring... Obviously meant that...
And then suddenly there was a huge crowd on the path ahead... People moving randomly.. With their loved ones happily... Swinging, Smiling and hopping around... Madly in joy... least bothered what others care about....

AND AT THE END OF THE ROAD....

It was snowing slightly... She was Sitting with a bare clothing... Which Completely dint protect her from the ice.. She was hugging herself tightly... With Hands Folded And Eyebrows Twisted In Worry...
That She May Not Be Loved....
That She May Have to be Alone....
Praying God To Send Her Special Someone.....
Praying That He Should Realise That He Must Realise That She Was The One.....

And then I brushed my eyes... Yawn! It was A dream!!! :)
But A Beautiful One...
Coz may be....
May be....
I'm One Of The Girls Of What I described... :) :) :)


This blog is just meant for one....... The only one...... :)

I asked Your permission... Hope you like it :)

I've been wanting to write out whatever I thought about you for a very long time... Afraid how you may react to it, I postponed it... But now... I'm convinced that you wouldn't take it so bad... :)

So, Right now You Must be thinking who is she talking about... In fact, thats what I am Thinking... What is Our relation.... Are We friends? If so, Then Why Am i not writing about the rest of my friends ( ok... I agree i don have many).... A Sibiling??? nahhhh... Never... I never had that idea When I talked to you.... A Classmate...lol... All we did when we were in class is criticize each other... Thats not classmate!!! An Enemy... Yea mebbe... My best friend smiley would love to say... Enemy... Dear Enemy... Like People Sometimes Use the term 'Sweet Idiot' :D well.... I Remember Someone telling me That All Relations Don't Have Names... May be its one such...... A Companion, A Friend, A Relation, A Listener........ Whatever :DAll In One And Just One for All Relations.......... :) :)

Soo... I guess You got a clean idea of whom I'm Talking about.... :P Its sometimes strange you know... You know someone for ages.... And never cared about him/her... And suddenly they seem so important... that the rest of the world seems practically non-existing!!! As I Read in a novel....
"I LOOKED AT HER... SHE WAS BRUSHING A HAIR FROM HER FORE-HEAD... AS SHE USUALLY DOES... SUDDENLY I HAD AN URGE TO TELL HER THAT I LIKED HER... SUDDENLY SHE SEEMED TO BE THE MOST CUTEST WOMEN ON EARTH.... SUDDENLY, AS IF, AS IF, A LIGHT HAD BEEN THROWN ON HER IMAGE IN MY MIND................................ "
You never know what happens the next moment in your life... trust me.... I had known you for ages I guess... You know the fact... We hated each other... Or atleast I did... (I know m gona get one from you for this...lol anyways!) I hated you... not because I was against you... Or that you were that bad... But coz U got soo much Hype that irritated me.... lolzzzzz... :D
As time went on many of my best friends, went on completely agreeing your views, appreciating your works.... I must tell you... I was possessive about my friends... Sort of Added Fuel To The fire.... I begin to hate you even more for stealing them....

IT IS QUITE STRANGE YOU KNOW... THAT MY HATRED WAS COMPLETELY IN CONTROL AND I NEVER DID AVOID YOU.... THATS STRANGE.... :O :O

It so happened as time passed by... I realized my friends were true.... But by the time... Our ways changed....

Must I mention in here.... I don't know... :D But yeah it is true... I had been suffering from pangs of guilt... Guilt that I misunderstood You... Unnecessarily.... Many @ times.. I probably just over-reacted... :( Talking to you those days I completely understood that You had no idea... what my first impression about You was... It is even more strange that I was secretly worried, If You came to know about all this... What exactly You would Think about me..... I had no idea... But I was sure of one thing- that You ought to know... I'm not the sort to move around feeling guilty... :) And I'm happy that You Took it Jovially... Anyways It isnt as if You were giving me A Nobel price Or A miss- perfect-goody-goody-girl award... You would've even scolded me....... :D i knowww... :) :)

So then... I entered hostel life... perfectly @ peace(atleast when i went) lolzz... Like some people believe that open mind is good for accepting anything... Note carefully : I said "SOME PEOPLE BELIEVE" :D Well as You Say It is better we live our lives the way we want to.... As long As we dont disturb others... :)

Times became very tough.... The picture which I thought About my life was shattered... Shattered.. Shunned By people Whom I thought would adore me... Busy Lives.. Busy people... And me Doomed In Loneliness.... :'( even today When I read Those Initial Catastrophes.. Trust Me My Eyes Get filled With Tears... Both Of Gratitude And Pain..... Only You Knew The True Story... And You Weren't Enjoying Either... Though You Tried To Convince People.. You Let Me View The True Image......... :)

FOR THOSE TIMES,THANK YOU...... :)

It all begun as casual conversations.... You begun them... By appreciating things which I never knew I was good at... Anyways It was obvious... :) Wasn't it...??? It begun describing the whole day... The Problems... Endless... Waiting for the hols to come... Insight into The past... Cherishable moments... Fleeting memories.. Few Fights... Long Conversations... Endless Reassurances... Concern.. Appreciation... And Now I have only One word to add to this.. GRATITUDE...... :)

I still remember every word You spoke... Continuously Telling me that it is better to just read people and Move ahead... Not to Even give A thought Why they are that way... Coz everyone aint perfect.... Like the way we are..... :P

And The Title..... "MISS.RESPONSIBLE HEAD..." The responsibility... which I used to hate... Being the eldest... Became My pleasure.... :) Appreciation... The Magic Of Words... Which Makes Peoples attitude change... I used To think... :)

Concern... Thats what... When I fainted Once... Out Of hunger... :| Concern... Concern... I knew the definition Then.... I knew It then... And The Way You reacted... Is Still In My Mind... Every Word of it......

And Of course... Endless, Pointless, Useless Conversations... Which Still Is My Favorite Part... Still lingers in my memory..... Stupid plans... silly nicknames.... And Your Information about movies... And My information about Books.... :D both added the sugar-and-spice to the conversation... :) Niceee... :)

Your Endless Useless Attempts To Make Me feel Jealous(remember its not dat easy :D) Chechi :P Now You must be remembering!!!!

When I was sure I couldn't Do anything... The time This year when I had to support dad For the first time... I was sure that I wasn't strong enough for that... I needed support.... Thank You For standing By My side those times.. :)

Then.... Then... So on and on... Your Anger!!!!!! I forgot to add a note about that... A small mess... In The Long journey... Remember For that simple thing... Only I know How Difficult It was for me To cope up those two days.... :'( And then the misunderstanding cleared.... I cried The first(and hopefully last) Time coz of You.... :) And Then The Request And Promise... A Good Memory,right????



Then Another Wave Of Indifference... Back home... A Way too busy life for which I hated Many of my friends... And How much I had to Take it... :( Then I completely And very frankly said how Much It hurt mee.... And I was In fact Astonished To Note that You understood... (I really was convinced That You would never get my point for all the gold in arabia!!) But You Proved Me wrong.... Once again!!!!! During the Solar Eclipse... That was the Best day I Had In My Life... It Wasn't a great deal either... But, You know, It is just small acts that make people happy... Ecstatic... Atleast It made me feel soo.... :D

Whats the word they use... TRUST.... Every time to think about it now... Only I said "don't say this to anyone..." You never said that to me... of course, except that life time plan :) Don't worry... I haven't said it to A soul... So That was what Trust meant.... I knew then.....

So.... Its Long aint It?????? Can go on describing...I guess:D But I'll Wind it up right here....
THANK YOU.....................
You May Read This And Say "WHAT?" lol Like the way You Imitate me Over the phone! :) ^-^

Words can Never say How Much I owe You.........

THANK YOU...................................................................!
P:S-Hope you Liked it ^-^
:) :)

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That it will never come again is what makes life more and more Interesting… It takes real good time to understand me.. And sometimes, Even people who understand me fail to get whatever I mean… For people who don’t know about me, I’m A fun-loving, friendly, Optimistic, Jovial, Out-going girl… Sometimes shy when the whole crowd is new…. But I get along with people very soon….. I have a lot of friends who consider me an important part of their life… I cheer up people very easily when they are sad…. I like Indian culture.. I Like analyzing characters… Emotions and Science are what I consider awesome Books are My best buddies...... i Read a hell lot of them...... Some of my friends think I can be a good listener… I can listen patiently… But even I can talk a lot… Its hard to get under my skin.. I always find out what people are upto very easily... I don intend to But it doesnot get out of my view I’m not very caring, Very friendly and all but I’m very naughty… My mood swings a lot… And finally, what matters is What U Know About Me And Not What U Read Over Here :)

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